So why do many treat it like they’re gonna get ‘a second chance’ and have another go at it? I mean, if you believe in reincarnation then I guess you would, but that one still needs to be proven! But still, there are many out there who choose to ruin peoples lives, just because they can, instead on focussing on their own shit. Focussing on your own shit is much more peaceful…
The subject of ‘Death’ crossed my mind a lot when I was younger, and unfortunately I was also surrounded by it (by losing family members way ‘too early’). Being so young I knew about death, but didn’t understand it. The thought of it petrified me so much, I had many sleepless nights over it. It was the unknowing what happens to ‘us’ (as in our consciousness) after life, that bothered me the most. There are many theories out there, but most (if not all) can be dismissed due to lack of evidence.
Anyhoo, this ‘fear’ carried on well into my twenties, but it was when my sister suddenly passed away back in 2018 I started to look at death in a ‘different light’. The thing that had scared me the most, for as long as I can remember, suddenly wasn’t scary no more. It was like something just, switched when she died. I started to think of death in a different perspective, and pretty much ‘switched-up’ how I thought about it…. And that massively lifted any anxiety I felt…
Basically, I thought about the years I haven’t knowingly (because I like to leave room for the possibility of reincarnation) been alive on this planet! Think about it, our lives right now, is nothing but a grain of sand in terms of the years that happened ‘before us’. Yet, that isn’t something that’s really worried about. The thought of nothingness and the not knowing what it’s like to cease to exist, shouldn’t actually be a worry. Because we’ve already experienced not existing, technically – if reincarnation isn’t a thing of course! So really life itself is the scariest thing, because we never know what’s going to happen and things can change within a split second. We’re only one decision away from creating a different path than the one we wanted!
So, I shall end on this note; None of us will get out of this life, alive! So, do the things that make you happy. And say NO to the things that don’t. Don’t go out of your way to hurt others, and if someone hurts you, then just walk away, Because that shit takes up energy and also makes you look kinda petty… moving on is always the best revenge!
Until next time,
T
